Tuning In To the Voice Within


When there’s too much noise around you, that cute quiet voice within goes unnoticed.

I read an interesting and quirky article written by life coach Martha Beck and wanted to give my take on it for all of you.

We have two voices that try to talk to us which are the logical ones such as parents, teachers, society and the other voice which is the wise primordial self.  It’s hard to choose between the two most of the time because of our impressions of them.

Logical voice is named Fang and is very business-like, well dressed, organized and on top of everything.  He’s very opinionated carries a Blackberry and has an impressive resumé.  The wise voice is named Buddy who wears shorts and a tank top with a butterfly tattoo on his back.  Buddy has a great smile and will hug you when you feel down.  Buddy’s resume is brief and has doodle art of squirrels on the side.

Who would you listen to?

When people say they want to find their “inner voice” it’s usually because they’re already listening to a loud, logical and convincing one; Fang.  But does it lead to fulfillment?  There’s another wise voice knocking that wants you to be happy, Buddy.  Fang thinks Buddy is weird but you really want to trust Buddy anyway.  You feel something in common with Buddy but you just can’t put your finger on it.

Voices of social conditioning manifests itself as a stream of thoughts in the head where wisdom often shows up as emotions or physical sensations in the body.  Ever had that gut feeling?  That’s Buddy trying to get your attention.  When something is wrong for you, you’ll feel constriction like knots in your body.  The wise choice unties those knots and makes you feel comfortable and light again.

Fang on the other hand is creating fear shouting “I’m right, do it my way or else!” or “You will fail” or “You don’t deserve it!”  Meanwhile there sits smiling Buddy nice and calm and relaxed taking deep breaths just waiting for you to join him.  Once you join him you are quiet and still and can finally tune in.  Wisdom is stronger than fear but only when you choose it.

Maybe you could tell Fang; “Yes I am worthy of this and if I fail the world won’t end and I’ll try something else.”  Fang will be upset for sure but with every choice like this your wisdom grows stronger and you can begin to ignore Fang so you can get out and play with Buddy.  He seems so interesting anyway.

Here’s your homework:

Think of a difficult decision or situation you are in right now that’s been keeping you up at night 😉  Ask yourself these three questions.

  1. What would calm do now?
  2. What would peace do now?
  3. What would relaxation do now?

This not only helps to open your mind but most of all your heart in order to find solutions.  The more often you ask these questions the more energy you feel which is your own wisdom.  When you feel the tension loosening up then you know you are on the right path heading in the right direction; the wise one.

And that’s what your inner Buddy would do.

By tuning in to your voice within, you not only choose wisdom as your advisor, you make this way of choosing your new way of life.

Happy Valentine’s Day Every Buddy  ❤


Much Love As Always,





29 thoughts on “Tuning In To the Voice Within

  1. Wow. What a great way to start my day. Beautiful contrast of Fang and buddy, both voices are saying the right thing but it is the approach which differs. Face your fears with buddy.
    Happy V-Day to you too, bud. ❤ 😀

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  2. I wake up to a beautiful Valentine’s Day post by hugging Buddy, Jen 😉 I loved the inspirational and intuitive streak to this post. Most may view Buddy as this voice in the back of their head while others view it as God Himself talking to them. I belong to the latter 🙂 I love how profoundly you analysed Buddy and Fang and wised our minds up in an entertaining fashion ❤ Have a beautiful Sunday, honey. A very happy Valentine's Day to you ❤

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    • I am smiling big reading your comments Deepika! 😀 Yes you’re right Buddy can also be God talking to us and guiding our decisions 🙂 That’s great you liked the post, talking about intuition can be so serious sometimes, I just wanted to keep it light this time 😉 Hope you are having a great Valentine’s Day my sweet friend ❤

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      • Even if you went deep, it still would have been an attractive read. You and words have this mellifluous relationship that covets me 😉 And as for my Valentine’s Day, it is looking just like you, Jen ❤ Beautiful, sweet and warm ❤

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      • Deepika you have quite the way with words, I love it! ❤ You are amazing and so brilliant 🙂 You make me want to book another ticket to come back to India and see you! I'm glad you're having a superb Valentine's Day you are also beautiful sweet and warm. But here it's freezing cold, -42 C! 😛 I need to get back on that plane ASAP!

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      • Jen, you’re making me blush again with an extreme compliment 😀 Sure come on over! ❤ I would love to see you too ❤ And the warmth is waiting to engulf you in its embrace anytime, dear 🙂 Trust me, I know what biting cold is like *shivers* I lived in the UK during my childhood and I still have an allergy to chilly temperatures. Many people gaze at me in wonder when I yell at them to turn the fan off sometimes 😀 Use plenty of coveralls, Jen! Hot chocolate, hot water bottles, warm baths… they can do wonders too 🙂

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      • Thanks Deepika I want to come back soon! 😀 I didn’t know you lived in the UK before, I’ve heard about the cold damp weather there so you know exactly what I’m talking about! 😉 I’ll try to stay warm for the next 2 months and then I’ll be able to stop shivering! Enjoy the heat where you are now ❤

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      • UK is a part of my life I’ll cherish forever, Jen. I wish to go back to it soon. I miss it a lot. Though not exactly the cold 😀 You’re right, it is wet 😀 I do hope the warmth comes back in Canada. Don’t worry, you’ll get through it, darling. You’re a strong, brave lady ❤

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  3. Wow Jennifer.. Such an inspiring post.. Really enjoyed it.. Loved the concept of Fang and Buddy.. Very true, when there is noise around our inner voice with a solution goes unnoticed.. Loved the quote on wisdom and fear. Have a great Sunday 🙂

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