February 9th– 11th, 2017-Hyderabad, India
After landing in Hyderabad, I felt the heat in the air more than in Mumbai. It felt really great since Canada was so cold at that time of year and I was enjoying the high temperatures very much 😀
Karthik and I caught a cab that was pre-arranged by our friend Pratyusha who was getting married very soon. I think Pratyusha is the most organized bride I’ve ever known and seen!! We had time to go to the hotel and meet our other blogging friends and when I saw them I was so excited and gave them all the biggest hugs! I hadn’t seen Darshith since last year and this time I met KP, Rupali, and Rafat which was so amazing, I felt like I knew them forever 🙂 It’s always fun to meet people in person and feel their energy that you already connect with through their writing.
We all arrived at the ceremony which was taking place all day and night. One of Pratyusha’s friends asked if the girls wanted to do a ritual with them called Mangal Sanam which involves pouring water over the bride’s head as a symbol to wash away any bad omens and everyone gives good wishes and blessings. It was the first time I was doing this and also the first time I was meeting Pratyusha! It was such a nice moment and I couldn’t believe all the beautiful and colors everywhere, not to mention the gorgeous outfits all the women were wearing! I met Pratyusha’s family who are so warm and welcoming, they made me feel like family immediately.
We all sat down for lunch and I was impressed yet again with the presentation of food. There was a banana leaf instead of a plate and on it was vegetarian food served by many people. Not only was it interesting to look at but it was so delicious too.
We all left to go back to the hotel again and change into our next outfit. It is customary for people to perform a song or dance for the bride and groom if they wish and since I was the only foreigner at the wedding, I decided to do this! I did a salsa dance to the song Bailando by Enrique Iglesias and faced my fear of being in front of a crowd! It’s easier to do something like this in a room full of people you don’t know that much! A very big thanks to Darshith for filming it 😉 one day I’ll be brave enough to post it..Haha 😛
After the 24 performances by people of all ages, it was time for everyone to get really dressed up for the big wedding ceremony which was happening at 1:49 am on Feb 10th. Pratyusha and her family arranged to have a saree ready for me to change into and off I went to get wrapped in this beautiful outfit for the first time in my life. Pratyusha’s make-up lady was so good at folding and wrapping it around me and after I was all dressed, I went outside the room to find the wedding photographers waiting for Pratyusha. Since she was still getting ready, they asked me to do some photos while they waited which was really nice and fun! Thanks to Muninder for the impromptu photo shoot 😀
It was such an amazing moment to feel so part of something and look so different. Everyone was extremely kind with me and I had many pictures taken again with my friends and Pratyusha’s family there. The real star of the show, though, was Pratyusha in all of her outfits and she looked absolutely gorgeous, this is one of my favorite pictures of her! The next picture is of the bride and groom looking amazing, it was really interesting to see the wedding ceremony at that time of night and all the rituals that happened afterward until about 6 a.m. The supper was to die for and I loved everything about it ❤
My friends and I slept at the hotel for a few hours and then woke up to check out. We all went our own ways at that point but I knew I would be seeing some of them again soon. I was so tired I ended up sleeping the entire day away, which I never do! By night I was feeling better but was also really hungry and when in Hyderabad, you have to try the famous Hyderabad Biriyani which is exactly what I did with Pratyusha’s brother Praveen 🙂 We went to the famous Bawarchi for supper and it was so good to eat this food and get to know Praveen outside of the wedding. The only thing missing was a picture, I think both of us were so tired, we forgot to take one, but I guess that just means I’ll have to come back again and visit! Everything was arranged by Pratyusha’s family to take care of me and they did it so well. Many thanks to everyone for all your care, generosity, and help, I really appreciate everything you did for me, I had the time of my life ❤
Despite sleeping all day, I was able to sleep at night which was good because I had to leave by 3 a.m. to catch my next flight to Pune and visit my other blogging friend and master chef Neerja. We met last year and she insisted I visit again for a fun weekend of cooking and eating at her place 😀
To Be Continued…
Much Love ❤
Jen
What a great experience. I never got to attend Indian wedding but it is on my list of things to do. You look lovely in sari.
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Aawww thank you so much!! 😍😍 I hope you can attend an Indian wedding g one day they are truly amazing and beautiful 😊😊 I really love your new gravitar by the way! You and your daughter are so gorgeous 💖💖
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You look so pretty in a saree, Jen 🙂
Since you mentioned Hyderabad, didn’t you find the food a bit too spicy? I am from Bangalore and here in South we usually prefer spicy and hot food 😀
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Hi R!! Thank you so much for the compliment 😊😊 it was fun to wear something so different! Actually I love spicy food and Indian is my favorite 😉 In my upcoming blogs you will see I also visited Bangalore and the South so I hope you will read them too 😊 Bangalore is a great city!
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Oh yes, I will read them for sure. 🙂 I am Rekha, you can either call me by my name or R, both are fine with me 🙂🙂
Hope you visited lalbagh in Bangalore.
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Very nice to meet you Rekha, I love your name! 😊 Stay tuned for more blogs in India… 😀😀
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Hi Rekha! Jennifer went to Cubbon park. Maybe next time she can visit Lalbagh 😜
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Hello 😁 she can visit kadlekai and avrekai parshe too 🙂
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What are these places? I haven’t been there myself. First, let me visit these 😂 thank you for suggestions 😛
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Kadlekai parshe and avrekai parshe are fairs. (Peanut and beans fairs) 🙂
I thought you were a bengalurean and you knew. Both of these fairs happen in Basavanagudi and VV Puram every year (dec-jan)
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I stay in B’lore but haven’t heard of these and now I can only go to these fairs next year 😀 what happens in these fairs?
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Nothing much. You eat peanuts and avrekai 😛 you will get to taste a variety of dishes made of avrekai. And for peanut fair, it’s just different varieties of peanuts.
It’s what we call in kannada- jaatre. A bit of this and that, just to remember the good old days when mobile phones and social media did not exist.🙂🙂
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Oh ok! You are from South India, right? You know these things in details. Next year, I will definitely go 😉
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Oh yes. 🙂 Born and brought up in Bangalore. And take Jen to lalbagh the next time. If she can make it during the flower show, that’s even good. 🙂 I usually never miss any flower show. Though I only go there to click photos 😂😂
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When is the flower show? See, I don’t know so many things 😐 B’lore is good 😛
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Twice in a year – republic day and independence day. They start it a week before and end it on these days.
Here’s the link to one of the flower shows of last year. (My post)
https://rrkamath.wordpress.com/2016/08/10/lalbagh-flower-show-august-2016/
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Wow! Loved the pics 😍 I will try to visit during this year’s Independence day if I am in B’lore 😂 or else will be a part of the show via your blog 😛
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Hahaha 😂😂😂 sure. I always post photos of flower show without fail 😀
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Yes Darshith, take me to lalbagh during the flower show!! 🙂 Thank you Rekha, I also love flowers very much! ❤
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We should all go next time!! 😀
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Excellent suggestions!! ❤
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Yes, let’s make a list of where we can go for my next visit to Bangalore! 😀
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Woohoo…….When I read this…..I lived those moments again…..It feels so refreshing…..Love you Jenjen……And all the crazy bunch of people around me…….
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Hahaha yeah I felt the same when I wrote it too KP! 😊😊 Love u too and everyone there 😊😊
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Hahaha KP, I think of that day every day 😛 Love you all !!! 🙂
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Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful! ❤ Everything about this part of the series was very graceful and it's so wonderful to see how you were taken good care of, Jen ❤ That saree is ultimate and you look absolutely gorgeous! ❤ Pratyusha's wedding looks and sounds amazing and I'm so glad you got to be a part of it, especially during the Mangal Sanam ❤ Looking forward to the next part with Neerja Di! ❤
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Thank You Deepika 🙂 ❤❤❤❤
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Hey, Pratyusha! ❤ How are you? You make one beautiful bride, dear! ❤ Happy married life and may the Gods always bless you two with a long, loving, healthy and beautiful life together! ❤
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Thank you so much love. I have been away since a while. Trying to get used to the new life. Will get back to blogging soon. I’m good 🙂 How are you doing ?
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You’re most welcome, love ❤ You're going to do great, don't you worry :* Looking forward to your upcoming blogs and song covers! ❤ I'm doing fine too, dear, books keep me occupied almost all the time 😀
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Thank you so much Deepika!! ❤ It was a beautiful experience to be a part of and welcomed with open arms ❤ Thank you for reading everything so far!! 😉
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It definitely was a beautiful experience for you, Jen! ❤ Reading your travel diaries give me huge pleasure ❤
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Though I heard it straight from you but still it feels nice to read about your Hyderabad stay 🙂 I love that picture of yours in saree ❤ Pratyusha is indeed a pretty bride 🙂
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Thank you so much NJ 🙂 Jenny, I loved every bit of the description 🙂 Glad you enjoyed the stay there 🙂
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I loved my stay in Hyderabad for so many reasons!! ❤ Thank you for organizing everything, you are amazing!! 😀
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Thank you so much NJ, it was an amazing time in Hyderabad ❤ Everything about it was awesome! 🙂
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That henna is breathtaking
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Thank you so much 🙂
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Yes I completely agree it was gorgeous! ❤
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Your presence would have made the day more special for the lovely bride.You look like a diva in the wedding togs.
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Oh yes !!! The day was even more special, becuz my soul sister was with me 🙂
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❤ Soul Sisters ❤
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AAWWW..thank you so much for your comments, they are so sweet! ❤ I had so much fun wearing the saree 😀
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Loved to read your narration, Jennifer. I’m surprised that you didn’t find the food spicy! I’m glad that you faced your fear of crowds. Kudos! I’m keep waiting for that video. 😁 You look gorgeous in that saree! I’ll keep waiting for the next part. 😊
~Shweta
My Random Ramblings
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She indeed looked like a doll that day 😍😍😍. Well she is an adorable doll. Love you Jenny! !! 🙂
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Aaww…thank you and love you too Pratyusha!!! ❤ ❤
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Thanks so much Shweta for reading everything so far!! ❤ I actually love spicy food, it's not an issue for me 😉 That video is tucked away for now but let's see what the future holds! 😛 And thank you for liking the saree on me, I love it too!!
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I loved reading your posts. 🙂 Glad to hear that you love spicy food too. I’d love to see that video 😉 You looked great! 😊 Do keep writing.
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Fab photos and great write up!
Brought back many memories of the weddings I attended there but no idea how you managed to stay awake all night! I usually fade off well before half of it’s done.
And you look stunning in the sari but then every one does. It’s a very beautiful and elegant outfit that compliments all shapes and sizes … shame it’s not so fashionable.
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Hi Kate, I was pretty tired as well because of the jet lag too but there was so much excitement going on it wasn’t an issue to stay awake longer than usual 🙂 Thank you for liking the saree on me too, I really love all the colors in it!! ❤
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The colours, the folds, the look elegant … did you get to keep it?
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Yes I did keep it 😊😊 I also attended another wedding so I’ll be blogging about that later on too 😀😀 Thank you so much for reading everything so far 😍
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I enjoy to read such good work, prefer quality to quantity!
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Thank you so much you also have a great blog about many life topics I like that too 😊😊
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Thank you, I totally enjoy doing it.
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Yo! Hyderabad! Loved it 😍 let the next blog come soon 😂 and you too come soon to India, Jennifer! 😍
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Thank you so much Darshith for reading, commenting but also for being a big part of this blog 🙂 I loved my time there too ❤ I'll come back as soon as I can but you can also come to Canada!! 😛
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Wow Jen, what an experience. You immersed yourself into the culture well right down to the dress.
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Thank you so much, I really enjoyed every minute of the wedding and my time in Hyderabad! 🙂
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How did India become such a passion for you?
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Thanks to WordPress I’ve met some amazing people here 😊 After a very big transformation in my personal life I needed to travel to restart my life again and India was the best place for me to go for many reasons. I met some blogging friends while there and since then the circle is continuing to expand and people are getting married 😊😊 It’s an honor to be a part of that with them and they treat me like family ❤
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This is so great Jen. It is exciting isn’t it wondering where the road will lead and at the same time knowing it will be a place where we are suppose to be.
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Thank you very much Tom and Audrey 😍 well said, I completely agree 😊
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You are welcome Jen.
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Plus I love their food!! 😁😁
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Yummy, yummy. Something about curry! They are finding it to be a true health food too.
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Yes I love curry so much too and it’s definitely a health food! 😊😊
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Wow! This was like being at the venue myself! The way you described so vividly – it almost made up for my absence! I am loving this and looking forward to your entire journey! Keep writing! And you look just too, too, too good in a saree!
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Aawww thank you so much Sri for your comments and compliments! 😍😍😍 I wish you could have been there too it was so fun. Hope we can meet one day soon 😘
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Sure! Would LOVE to meet you!
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Me toooooo! 😀😀😀
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Lovely pictures! You look so elegant in sari.💖 I hope the book is coming up strong.
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Hi Mary 😀 Thank you so much for your comments ❤ I loved wearing that sari I felt like a celebrity the whole time! 🙂 The book is coming along great, thank you so much for asking. I'm hoping to have it out by the end of this month so I will be keeping you posted for sure! 🙂 ❤ I hope everything is going great for you there!
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I’m doing great and keeping it together. Thanks💖💖💖
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Happy to hear that Mary! 💜💜 I tried to comment on your latest blog but it’s not giving a space for some reason. Do you know why?
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I don’t know, but I will check it out. Thanks for the information.
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You’re looking great in Sari, Jennifer. The silk Sari complements you. Looks like fun trip
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Thank you so much for reading and for your very nice comments Arv! 🙂 I loved wearing the sari and I definitely had fun on my trip 🙂
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That’s evident from your pictures and post. I like the details in your post which certainly suggest that you enjoyed it thoroughly.
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Thank you Arv for enjoying the details 🙂 I appreciate it 🙂
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