I saw you this morning as you walked by the reflection on the wall
I saw your hair was a little messed up but that’s normal for you these days
I saw you stop and gaze at me for a few seconds; expressionless
Just when you thought you could get by without noticing me
I saw you smiling back, even though sadness blankets you daily
I saw the creases at the outer corner of your eyes are getting a little deeper
I saw the two lines on your forehead for the first time in my life
Where did they come from? Perhaps too much emotion
Happiness, sadness, anger or pain…
I saw the way you held back the tears when you heard songs on your playlist
I saw you cry yourself to sleep at night wondering how you would get through tomorrow
I saw you hiding, hoping nobody would find you
The guilt and shame was killing you one crack at a time
I saw you writing letters you would never send or publish for a soul to read
I saw you searching feverishly for quotes that lifted your spirit
Even if they only lifted you for a few minutes, it was all worth it
I saw you leaning on your kids who held you upright every day
I saw you praying hard for strength to carry on when you felt like giving up
I saw you being grateful that life was too short
I saw you crash.
Then, I saw you again….
About two years later, you looked different
This time, I saw you walk by your reflection and you stopped to notice me
I saw you practicing self-care, now it’s your turn
I saw your new hairdo, it really suits you
I saw your genuine smile return, red lipstick makes your smile even brighter
I saw you being proud of your fine lines and wrinkles, you earned every single one of them
I saw you singing and dancing as you exercised the stress away
I saw you sleeping like a baby; you finally look peaceful at night
I saw you traveling to near and far places, having a grand time with people
I saw your self-confidence return, this is so fantastic
I saw you preparing for your future, not just yours but also for your kids
I saw you write a book that comes directly from your gut, heart, and soul
One that can help others get through hell just like you did
I saw you sharing and posting quotes that inspired you and others
I saw you and your kids holding onto each other with full support all around
I saw your prayers being answered one by one, in mysterious ways nobody else knows
And witnessed the most beautiful spiritual transformation in my life
I saw you being grateful for being alive
I saw you rise…
And for everything you’ve been through
I’m so grateful I saw you…
Much Love ❤
Jen
**P.S: BIG NEWS! I am so excited and proud to announce that my book Winning While Losing: The Upside of Heartbreak, is due to be released in May 2017! Just an FYI, I will be going by the author name of Jennifer Green, which is my maiden name and who I’ve been all along. I will be posting little sneak peaks from my book until then and I would like to thank you ALL so much for your love, support, and undying patience with me. Everything is going well with the publishing side of things and finally with me personally and professionally. It’s been quite the journey and it’s not over yet, I’m so grateful to have all of you with me.
Lots of love to YOU!
XOXOXO
So beautiful.. like a phoenix rising from the ashes, you rose to fly higher and higher to conquer the limitless sky..
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Thank you so much Greeshma for your beautiful comments 😍💖🌹 They mean a lot 😊
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This is very beautiful prose, Jennifer, keep on writing
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Thank you very much for your uplifting comment Cornelia ❤ I really appreciate it 🙂
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This is so beautiful 🙂 I am happy that now you can see yourself from third person point of view and analyze yourself ❤ It shows that you are almost healed 🙂
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Loved this, Jen! I second Neerja Di’s comment ❤ You truly are an inspiration, never forget that, and don't you forget you're loved by so many people either! ❤ XOXO ❤
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Thank you for saying this Deepika, it really means a lot to me ❤ Some days I don't know but here on WordPress I can always feel the love ❤ Thank you too for all your love and support 🙂 It means so much.
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Lots of love, Jen ❤ We're always here for you ❤ XOXO ❤
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Thank you so much Deepika 😍😘❤
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Thank you so much NJ, as you know it’s been a long journey but I know I’m much better now ❤ Thanks for all your love and support ❤
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❤ Always there for you ❤
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Thank you so much 😍😘❤
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beautifully written, you are talented … was it a DV situation? Glad you are healing and that the book already has a publisher, well done you!
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Thanks so much Kate for all your big support, it’s really great to have you here. It wasn’t a DV but it was many other things. I’m a better person for being who I am now. I have self-published my book but it’s still a big project. Almost done and can’t wait to announce it here for everyone! 🙂
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Very glad you got out then … but I do know many would benefit from books published by DV survivors .. it will come
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I hope there are these types of books out there for those who need it too. Thanks again Kate 😊
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Jen, Jen, Jen. Awesome, Awesome, Awesome. What a poem of life anew. You are such a winner and we are so happy to be watching you soar.
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Thank you from my heart Tom and Audrey, this journey has been a long time coming but I am doing it and getting there, slowly but surely 😀 Thank you for reading and for your comments ❤
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Great things come to those who wait. Waiting was/is our hardest task. Great things are happening with you, keep it up.
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That’s very true about waiting. Thanks again for everything 😊😊
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Dear Jennifer,
First of all; congratulations and best of luck for your book
thanks for a stopover and liking my work, just because of such nice gesture, I am introduced to your blog.your works are authentic, interesting and genuine, I appreciate your work.
keep blogging
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Hello Abhishek and thank you for leaving such a lovely comment. It’s good to see you and I hope you’re well. I will keep blogging and I hope you will too. Thanks again I appreciate your words 😊😊
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Congratulations,my solo traveller.poem are most lovely .
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Aruna it’s so nice to see you again! How are you doing? Thank you for liking my post that’s so sweet of you 😍😍
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I remember u daily bt because of offcial works-i can not give time to blog.i m doing both works-look after my home n office.dear jenny!!
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